You need to make a major change in your life. Do you make it all at once, cold turkey
What is life but a bit of chaNGE EVERYDAY? Like a cap key that changes its mind.
And since when is change that predictable. Usually it comes in a blast and it is a cold turkey when you are expecting a hot sirloin. I almost prefer cold turkey.
However, i just experienced two deaths of people close to me and they both really were not a surprise. one was old and one had cancer. Yet grief is grief. I have experienced a call in the night about an unexpected death of a sister in law involving a car accident. the grief was a bit different , yet grief is grief.
In the work place I certainly don’t like a surprise change. I have experienced coming into work and “o by the way we changed your whole job title” that was not cool and I think I still steam about it.
But, let me say this. change is very necessary for personal change. had i not had the above change moments in my life i would not be so able to empathize, and i would be lacking in personal development.
change is good, just make it gentle.